This is not directed at any one.
When you're having an argument with some one or some ones just stop for a minute. Think, how can you still say what you want to without seeming mean, rude, or offensive. Perhaps walk away for a bit to cool down. Take a a few minutes to look over your comment. Maybe rewrite it a few times. In the end if you can't say it politely than maybe what you want to say isn't as important as some one's feelings.
Don't try and control some one's life. Be supportive, make suggestions, but don't, DON'T try and tell them how to live their spiritual or regular life.( Even if you don't agree with them. Be respectful.) It's theirs.
If someone asks you to stop doing something. Stop doing it.
If some one asks you to delete your comment(s). delete it.
If you're asking some one to stop doing something be sure that you say it nicely. Perhaps give the reason why you want them to stop. Because if they know the reason they're more likely to stop.
If you're asking some one to delete their comment(s) be sure that there's a good reason and ask nicely.
This isn't all that important, but learn to take a joke.( as long as it's good humored.)
Most importantly remember the Golden Rule.
I love this site and I love you guys. I want to see this site to be a fun and happy place. I want this to be a place where you can grow for the better. I want this to be the same awesome place it was a few years ago (I know it'll never be exactly the same) . I want Codebears to live on. Please, help me make this a better place. Via Vita Veritas!